Importanta si puterea VORBELOR


PUTEREA VORBELOR
autor necunoscut

Într-o zi de vara, un grup de broscute se plimbau vesele printr-o padure si la un moment dat, doua dintre ele au cazut într-o groapa foarte adânca. Toate celelalte broscute s-au strâns în jurul gropii si priveau cu mirare la adâncimea acesteia. Erau convinse ca cele doua broscute nu aveau nici cea mai mica sansa sa iasa de acolo.

Sunteti ca si moarte, nici nu are rost sa va chinuiti, este prea adânca groapa, opriti-va ca sariti deageaba…erau comentariile ce veneau din partea grupului. Cele doua broscute încercau sa sara din rasputeri pâna când, în cele din urma, una dintre broscute a dat crezare vorbelor si a renuntat, cazând jos de oboseala si murind.

Cealalta broscuta însa, a continuat sa sara cât de tare o tineau piciorusele. Cele de pe margine strigau la ea sa se opreasca, sa-si curme suferinta, mai bine sa moara. Ea, dimpotriva, sarea tot mai sus si tot mai tare si… iata-o ca a reusit!

Broscutele de pe marginea gropii se uitau la ea cu mirare si au întrebat-o fara nici o ezitare: “Nu ne-ai auzit? Noi tot ti-am spus sa renunti dar tu în schimb ai tot continuat! Cum ai reusi sa iesi din groapa aceasta atât de mare?”

Bineînteles, precum stiti si voi deja, broscuta era surda. În tot acest timp ea a crezut ca prietenele ei o încurajau.

MORALA

- o vorba de încurajare pentru cineva care este la pamânt poate sa îl ajute sa se ridice si sa o scoata la capat, sa razbeasca în cele din urma chiar daca pare ca nu mai are nici o sansa

- o vorba distructiva pentru cineva care este la pamânt poate fi doar acel lucru de care mai are nevoie pentru a “muri”, o lovitura de gratie care i-ar grabi sfârsitul.

Puterea vorbelor… câteodata este atât de greu de înteles cum o vorba încurajatoare poate sa mearga chiar asa de departe. Oricine poate spune vorbe ce tind sa “jefuiasca” pe altcineva de spiritul de a continua în momente dificile.

Fii atent la ceea ce vorbesti, ofera-le celorlalti ce traverseaza calea ta numai vorbe de bine!

Life and its twists and tricks


"Life, what a trip! One minute you're born, the next you die. Then, one day, you stand back and say:

"Aye yai yai! Was that ever believable, or what?! First I thought I was this and then I thought I was that, then I became this and then that. Hold on now, why are you looking at me like that? Wait a minute... OHMYGOSH! There was a pattern! Holy cow! You mean I could have thought anything... and been anything?! But what about limits? How could that be? What do you mean pie in the sky? Dreams come true? Infinite possibilities?"

Fortunately, there's still time...

Believe or not, if you think at it...it is true.
When I was 14 I hated my life, I hated school. With 18...the same. Now with 27 I miss my childhood, I miss school. With 21 was too much .. university, work, traveling, decisions ...now I miss that time and I regret I haven't spend more time enjoying it, being present and enjoying the moment.

I could say I now realize it much better but I am sooo damn happy I did it...and as I like to believe...it is never too late, fortunately, there's still time...

Dream, believe, live ... time is never coming back

Ella

Gratefulness ...

Today all over the United States family and friends are coming together to celebrate a day of Thanksgiving. Although a Romanian and somewhere in an European country I too take time to reflect on the things for which I am grateful especially remembering those people who have helped shape my life till now in such a beautiful and trustfully way.

I feel so grateful for all fiends I have and to those special friend who truly had a profound impact on my life. Those who were actually responsible for helping me move on to the right road and to a bright future. When I think of these great friends, I have such a deep feeling of gratitude that it is not so easy to put my feelings into words.

I feel so thankful that I had the pleasure of meeting so many great people wherever I went and learned lessons that changed my life completely. As I look back to the point where the change began to take place in my life, I'm reminded of the lyrics from one of Celine Dion's songs "Faith"

"Faith!

Right beside you is where I'll stay

Oh faith !

Just take me as I am... so please... have faith!

So many times and so many ways

I didn't know just where to go,
You gave me a sign and opened my eyes

That's the reason why I know

....

Faith!
Right beside you is where I ll stay

Oh faith!

Just take me as I am... so please... have faith ! have faith !"


You might take a few minutes today - regardless of what country you are in and do as those in the United States are doing - give thanks for the good that you have in your life.

Another message came today from Rhonda Byrne, the author of "The Secret" that I want to share with you as is perfect touching this message of "Thanksgiving"

"The greatest thief of human happiness and abundance is ungratefulness. Any lack in our lives - whether in money, health, or relationships - is simply the evidence of a lack of gratitude. If you focus on lack you are not being grateful, and that will bring more lack into your life. Yet the simple state of radiating gratitude summons everything to you.

No matter who you are or where you are, you can change your life with gratitude, but you must feel it with your whole heart and radiate it from every cell. Gratitude is not a mental exercise, and in fact, if you simply use your mind for gratitude it will have little or no power. True gratitude comes from your heart! You must think gratitude through your heart, speak gratitude through your heart, and feel it intensely in your heart.

Then practice gratitude relentlessly. As you practice gratitude you will attract more thoughts and feelings of gratitude. In a short time your entire being will be saturated with it, and you will experience a happiness that is beyond what you can imagine. This is what is ahead for you when you choose gratitude as your way of life. And if you can really live in this highest state of gratitude, you will never have to ask for anything. Everything you want will be given to you before you even ask, because gratitude is the magnetic substance that opens every single door in the Universe.

This Thursday is Thanksgiving in the United States. To celebrate Thanksgiving, I want to share an excerpt with you from The Secret Daily Teachings, which is being released in the US, Canada, the UK, and Australia on December 9th. This excerpt presents an easy way to start using gratitude and integrate it into your life by making every Thursday "Thank You Thursday." As you "Thank your way through every Thursday" you will open the most powerful receiving channel within you.

"Today is Thank You Thursday". Today and every Thursday is your day to say and feel "Thank you" in as many ways as you can.

Write a list of all the people and events you want to give thanks for.

Return thanks today to those who have done things for you.

As you walk say "Thank you" in your mind with each step you take.

As you drive, make each time you stop your cue to say "Thank you."

At various times in the day, think and feel "Thank you" inside you seven times in a row.

Look for every opportunity to say "Thank you" to other people, and say it with so much meaning that the person looks right at you.

Thank your way through every Thursday, and make "Thank you" your predominant thought, feeling, and words of the day.

"Thank you" - two words, inconceivable potential power, and all they need is you to put the power into them by expressing them.

Thank you!"

I thank you for this inspiring message Rhonda and I hope it will inspire many other people today.

Today, I will be giving thanks to those individuals who have shaped my life, to those who come into my way and smile to them. It does make a difference :)

May the joy of gratitude be in your heart,
Gabriela

Think Once More - Say "Thanks to God"



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Cealalta femeie...


am primit astazi un mesaj la care era atasat aceasta alegorie a unui autor necunoscut.

E impresionanta si as dori sa o recomand cititorilor acestui blog in speranta oferirii unui moment de gandire la ce reprezinta APRECIEREA, in special pentru acea persoana draga pe care o numim MAMA.

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Cealalta femeie ...
autor necunoscut

"sunt o mie de feluri de a pierde o zi, insa niciunul de a o intoarce inapoi"
proverb arab

Sotia mea mi-a recomandat sa ies cu o alta femeie.

"Tu stii ca o iubesti !" - îmi zise intr-o zi, luându-ma prin surprindere. "Viata este foarte scurta, dedica-i timp "...
- "Dar eu te iubesc pe tine ", am protestat.
- "Stiu, dar o iubesti si pe Ea, deasemenea".

Cealalta femeie pe care sotia mea dorea sa o vizitez era Mama mea, vaduva de niste ani, dar serviciul si copiii mei faceau ca sa o vizitez numai ocazional.
In seara asta am sunat-o sa o invit la cina si la film.

- "Ce s-a întâmplat ? Esti bine ?" m-a întrebat.

Mama mea este tipul de femeie pe care, o chemare seara târziu, noaptea, sau o invitatie surpriza este un indiciu de veste rea.

- "Am crezut ca ar fi placut sa petrec ceva timp cu Tine", am raspuns, "amândoi, singuri...ce parere ai ?".
Reflectând un moment la asta, zise:
- "Mi-ar place foarte mult"...

Vineri, in timp ce conduceam, dupa serviciu, sa o iau, ma simteam nervos, nervozitatea care precede o întâlnire... Si, pentru Dumnezeu !, când am sosit la casa ei, am vazut ca si Ea era foarte emotionata !
Ma astepta in poarta, îmbracata în vechiul ei palton, îsi încretise parul si îmbracase o rochie cu care sarbatorise ultima aniversare de nunta; fata ei râdea si iradia lumina ca un înger.

"Le-am spus prietenelor mele ca o sa ies cu fiul meu si au fost foarte emotionate" - îmi povesti urcând in masina.

Am fost la un restaurant nu foarte elegant, dar foarte primitor. Mama mea se sprijini de bratul meu ca si cum era "Prima Doamna a Natiunii".
Dupa ce ne-am asezat, a trebuit sa-i citesc meniul. Ochii ei vedeau numai literele mari.
Pe la mijlocul listei, mi-am ridicat privirea spre ea, Mama mea, asezata pe partea cealalta a mesei, doar ma privea. Un surâs nostalgic se vedea pe buzele ei.

-"Când erai micut, eu eram cea care iti citea meniul. Iti amintesti ?".

- "Atunci, e momentul sa te relaxezi si sa-mi permiti sa-ti înapoiez favoarea", am raspuns.

In timpul cinei am avut o conversatie agreabila, nimic extraordinar, doar ne-am pus la zi unul cu viata celuilalt. Am vorbit atâta, ca am pierdut filmul.

- "Voi iesi cu tine altadata, dar numai daca ma lasi sa te invit eu ", spuse mama mea.
Când am dus-o acasa îmi parea rau ca ne desparteam, am sarutat-o, am îmbratisat-o si i-am spus cât o iubesc.

- "Cum a fost întâlnirea?" a vrut sa stie sotia mea când m-am întors in noaptea aceea.

- "Foarte placuta, iti multumesc", am privit-o recunoscator spunându-i, mult mai mult decât mi-am imaginat".

Câteva zile mai târziu Mama mea muri de un infarct; totul a fost atât de rapid, ca nu am putut face nimic.

Dupa putin timp am primit un plic de la restaurantul unde cinasem cu Mama. Continea o nota care spunea :

Cina este platita anticipat, eram aproape sigura ca nu voi putea fi aici, oricum am platit pentru tine si sotia ta...., niciodata nu vei putea întelege ce a însemnat noaptea aceea pentru mine.... TE IUBESC ! Mama ta.

In acest moment am înteles importanta de a spune la timp TE IUBESC si de a le oferi fiintelor noastre dragi timpul (spatiul) pe care îl merita. Nimic in viata nu este mai important decât Dumnezeu si Familia ta, da-le timp pentru ca ei nu pot astepta.

MORALA

Daca Mama ta traieste... distreaz-o !
Daca nu... aminteste-ti-o !
Daca ai Mama... recomanda mai departe aceasta pagina, faci ca sa reactioneze pe cineva care a uitat putin aceasta fiinta minunata care este MAMA.
Si aminteste-ti mereu ! Dumnezeu iarta, dar Timpul nu iarta niciodata!

NICI NU SE POATE INTOARCE !!!!!!